Child abuse doesn't only mean physical abuse. There are several types of child abuse such as emotional abuse or a sexual one which is a hidden type of abuse. The core element that ties them together is the emotional effect on the child. Abused children feel worthless, unsafe and neglected. They become excessively withdrawn, fearful and very shy. What is more they live in a separated world which is unpredictable and horrific place for them. All types of child abuse leave long lasting scars. Abused children have a real problem with expressing their feelings and it causes depression, anxiety and anger. In addition to this they behave as if they were to blame for the acts of people who hurt them. They have also difficulties in relationships with others and don't trust anyone.- stress and lack of support
mental illnesses of torturer- domestic violence
- alcohol and drug abuse
I would like to mention that it can be very misleading because it doesn't mean that child abuse doesn't happen in a ''good'' families. Sometimes families with high social position and large amount of money who seem to be ideal are hiding a different story behind closed door.
What should we do if we notice a child abuse? It's normal to feel a bit confused in this situation. If you suspect that child is abused it's vital to get him the help. The first thing you can provide him is an unconditional support and calm. Remember that talking to the abused child can be very difficult. You should contact the police, social services, official agencies or self-help groups which are able to give you advice and can help you solve this problem.
It is possible that in the future abused children may repeat the pattern that they themselves experienced. On the other hand many adult survivors of child abuse break old pattern and have a strong motivation to protect their children against what they went through and become excellent parents.
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